Standing in the Shadows of Faith
A 6 month coaching program that stands with you for marriage reconciliation while in the midst of divorce.
Strengthen your faith, take decisive action, and uphold the marriage covenant, even in the face of uncertainty.
It's not over until God says it's over.
I Suppose You're Here Because...
Friends and family support you, but their patience is wearing thin from how a dead marriage is affecting you and the kids.
And you worried that you are relying too heavily on their support.
You've searched and searched but the resources for standing are almost non-existent.
What you have found is very "life is better after divorce" and rah rah "you've got this!" but what about standing for reconciliation even after the divorce is filed?
You are committed to your faith, feel confused and let down, but still want to keep the faith and reconcile it with your new reality.
Because the option of walking away from faith and being disobedient is not better than the solution of trusting.
Can you relate?
People who love you have expressed concern and strong opinions about you choosing to fight for your marriage
You are sure that God has called you to stand but unsure of how to do it
Your faith says to fight but sometimes you want to just give up and get it over with
You know God is the solution but your spouse is hell bent on divorcing
Or is it more like this?
You feel drained from having so much responsibility (still) while being uncared for, neglected, and now insulted by your spouse
You feel like an emotional wreck, broken, bruised and forgotten
Painful questions swirl in your mind: What did I do wrong? Why wasn’t I enough?
You wanted to be healed from this yesterday and standing is counterintuitive
Listen I get it.
Standing for reconciliation for what appears to be a dead marriage while being pulled into a surprise divorce tornado (with its plethora of deadlines and decisions) is NOT easy.
You may feel judged and overwhelmed by the pity and frustration of those who feel you should have more of an "F#%$ You" mentality and rah rah your way to the next and “best” chapter of your life.
You can't fully explain why, but you feel that God has called you to fight.
You should NOT be doing it alone.
In fact, it’s impossible to do it alone.
Not if you want to emerge with your sanity, spirit and soul intact.
Yet long haul support among family and friends is fleeting
and can bring additional emotional weight.
There is another way to get through this.
It includes a resource dedicated to supporting, enabling and uplifting you as you grow as a spiritual warrior, wife and woman while navigating the emotional, spiritual and business aspects of divorce.
Let’s write a story of moving forward while Standing in the Shadows of FaithTM.
You may have been struck down, but you are not destroyed.
Standing in the Shadows of Faith
I want to add a definition here...
in the shadow of idiom
1: very close to
2: in a position of being concealed, unnoticed or overshadowed by faith
3: hidden or reserved
Imagine This... (this is too long, will edit)
You spend 180 days strategically upholding the marital covenant while simultaneously taking control of your divorce process, creating and executing a plan to move forward with gusto
You are better, not bitter and the energy you exhibit is life giving and refreshing regardless of the outcome of standing
You are able to remain steady and anchored when emotionally triggered to exude peace, composure and confidence
Catching up over dinner with an old friend, you feel clear on your decision, unashamed of your change in status and equipped with language (and boundaries) to address questions or comments about your spouse.
Feeling the strength and hope from your prayer life, you will harness your inner warrior and remember her innate value, her gifts and her purpose, even when heavy emotions and doubt challenge you.
You will take the high road, focusing on meeting your current and future needs instead of being weighed down by temporary circumstances. You will control the controllable and free yourself from the shackles of the rest, practically and/or emotionally.
You will create a realistic and relevant roadmap to hope, not some nebulous "life is better on the other side" rhetoric.
You will walk in the world with an acute awareness of who you are that isn't driven by the biased opinions of others, having reconnected with your core identity.
Unpacking the hidden gifts this challenging season has revealed and being proud of how far God has brought you.
You feel light as a feather, knowing that you're freeing yourself from the shackles of heavy emotions, viewing your spouse and pending divorce with different lenses to experience true healing.
Feel supported, encouraged and uplifted while you grow as a spiritual warrior, wife and woman.
Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. - Ephesians 6:13
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Adding more testimonials and content by Monday
TESTIMONIALS
"I hope many get to experience
coaching with her"
“She was incredibly affirming when trying out new things and always excited to help me learn. She equipped me with different coping mechanisms and strategies for facing different kinds of challenges.”
- Luyanda N.
"You’ll feel like you’re talking with a good friend that gets you."
"My breakthroughs came from Chantay’s thoughtful, intentional words of encouragement and care. I was able to renew confidence in making decisions, understand and honor my personal boundaries and trust in myself."
- J.M.
Hey, I'm Chantay!
I help Superwomen find calm in the eye of the divorce tornado and courageously take on separation so they can rebuild a JOY-filled life and Live Happily Never After.
I’m a certified creative living and divorce coach passionate about helping you navigate personal and professional transitions with intention and a process-focused mindset. By understanding your unique challenges, I offer a personalized, holistic coaching experience rooted in a Christian worldview, designed to unlock your full potential and help you achieve your goals.
With over 20 years of experience in marketing, business, and entrepreneurship across various industries, I’ve navigated my own journey of career, family, and personal growth. I’m here to partner with you, guiding you through life’s transitions with the same creativity and curiosity that have fueled my own success. Your wins are my joy!
Fun facts:
I’ve lived in 10 states and three countries, visited 36 states and 10 countries, and I’m an avid concertgoer and music trivia enthusiast.
Here are some things I cover with my clients.
What is my level of commitment to standing?
How do I prepare for the divorce process?
How do I cope with the emotional rollercoaster of divorce?
How do I establish and enforce my boundaries for standing while divorcing?
How could God allow this to happen?
How do I bounce back from divorce after being a stay at home mom or underemployed?
How do I plan for my future as a single person over 40?
How do I feel like myself again?
How long will it take for me to feel steady again and healed?
How do I help my kids through the divorce process?
How do I handle an uncooperative or unkind spouse?
Benefits You Can Expect
Reclaim your Identity. Renew your Purpose. Restore your Joy.
Customized 90 day plan based on where you are.
Successfully manage the divorce process.
Be the architect of your new life with intention, faith and hope.
Build the builder (you) during the divorce tornado.
Maximize effort and save time and money an legal fees.
Be prepared, focused and strategic for the best outcome.
blah blah blah
Program Modules
building your divorce support team
assemble your essential support team and develop a solid roadmap for the transition
from married to single.
Foundation and Grounding
Rebuild a sense of self beyond external labels through grounding in faith.
Protection and Provision
Protect your peace and open channels of provision.
Emotional Healing
Processing and Release to move forward with freedom and peace.
Moving Forward
Creating your future with confidence, purpose, and joy.
Clients who see the best results with me are typically...
A Stay at home mom or care giver Considering or walking through the divorce process, who feels unsteady and unsure
A trailing spouse who after years of moving for his job is starting over
A high achiever who sacrificed career or personal growth and is ready for a come back
A Woman who is going through a high asset or high conflict divorce who yearns for clarity
A Woman who is going through divorce and wants to create a next chapter filled with joy
A christian Woman who wants to honor god while choosing her own well-being
The program is for you if...
You're ready to focus on the future
you want a smooth divorce process
you're open to christian principles
you're eager to be free
you're committed to doing the work
you want peace in your life
it's time to make way for you 2.0
you're willing to learn
you want to invest in yourself
The program is NOT for you if...
You want to linger in the past
you'd rather overspend on legal fees
you're offended by christian principles
you're eager to destroy your ex
you allergic to spreadsheets, journaling or anything that looks like work
you want to hold onto your pain and be a victim instead of a warrior
you're ready to live with shame and guilt
You crave drama, not solutions
you don't care about your settlement
Ready to Live Happily Never After?
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